How to respond to hate comments

Is not to respond at all!

It seems like people either hate me or love me. I can not please everyone, and I don't expect that either. But for people staying around when they don't like me is kind of weird to me. 

I figured out I should not respond to hate comments at all, because I don't know who this person is, and I don`t want to waist my energy on them, and also I don't want the hater to drag me down to their level for a discussion that will never end, because a hater want that, and they will never stop. And yes, I have feelings, and I can feel that some comments are really unfair and cruel, and I can get really upset if I`m not conscious on how to react to this craziness. 

I will have to say I lost myself for a moment today, and I felt like answering some comments. I was stressed out, not in the best mood maybe, and I just answered without giving it to much thought, which was stupid, because it didn`t feel good at all. I felt that the hate got some control of me when I responded, and it felt really bad. Like really bad. Not for the hater, but for myself. Because I don`t want them to get what they want, so I decided to delete my comment, and of course. Then I suddenly became fake in the haters eyes, because I deleted the comment, and that I was hiding something. You see? Start of a discussion/fight. Exactly what the hater want, and I don't want that. And I don`t know them, and how old they are. I should really not waist my energy on that. I should be better. 

I was just telling this person to leave my channel alone, and that he or she is not welcomed on my channel. What a waist of letters, I know. 
It`s not all about the hate either, but people telling me what I must do, and I felt like answering because sometimes I really don´t agree with them, but then I realized I don't need that persons permission, and I don't have to defend myself to anyone (and at least not to someone I don`t know, and can not see), and therefor I removed my answer.
And also, there is people accusing me and assuming things that is not true at all, and I felt like telling how it really was, but then again, I should not feel the need to explain and defend myself to false accusation either.  

I`m not fake just because I regret answering a comment. I just realized it was not a good idea, for myself, because that gives the hater control. So therefor I deleted them. I will rather block, because answering hate comments is a trap, and I walked in to that trap today, but I saw it clearly afterwords and fixed it.  

So if someone wonders why some comments are gone it is because of what I`m now telling you.

I have no idea where all of this hate is coming from. It just happened over night really with one video blowing up. But this is an opportunity for me to become strong. The hate is the haters feelings, and has nothing to do with me. I must remind myself of that every day. 

It has nothing to do with me 
I should not let it get to me
I should not become a hater because of hate
I will not let them drag me down to their level
I will just block it

Someone even told me they would kill me if I don't stop making videos. This was probably a comment from a child, but still. It is not ok with death treats. It is actually a criminal offense and quit disturbing.

Enough said about that.

His eyes is matching my blouse. <3

Good night and sleep tight my fluffy teddy bears. I appreciate you so much! Thank you for all you warm hearted comments and thumbs up. It means so much to me. Thank you!

I wish you a beautiful week!




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